Hello, I'm a 20 year old female.. I have never felt a penis inside of me ever since I started to have sex.. I feel like it is there but no sexual feelings.. in the other hand I do feel sensation and can catch an orgasm through oral sex or getting fingered... but no matter what I can't feel sensation inside of me... I need help... I would love to find out a solution to this..

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MANY women can not orgasm from vaginal intercourse. Period. The nerve bundles just are not there for the sensations to happen. MANY women only orgasm from clitoral stimulation.

Be happy that you are able to have ANY orgasm. There are far too many women who never do.

I'm really sorry to hear this. I hope you don't have a selfish sex partner.

Just having a penis in one's vagina feels really good! Maybe he is using his penis as a "weapon", of sorts? Don't just assume that a man knows anything about the real pleasure of sex; these days, he is likely to be a masturbation addict, that is the worst kind of sex partner.

You will have to bring out your own orgasmic potential to a highly developed state... probably by masturbation... and with the use of a vibrator. Get a good book on how to masturbate and practice, practice, practice. You will feel better too. :)

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Originally Posted by Choux

I'm really sorry to hear this. I hope you don't have a selfish sex partner.

Just having a penis in one's vagina feels really good! Maybe he is using his penis as a "weapon", of sorts? Don't just assume that a man knows anything about the real pleasure of sex; these days, he is likely to be a masturbation addict, that is the worst kind of sex partner.

You will have to bring out your own orgasmic potential to a highly developed state....probably by masturbation...and with the use of a vibrator. Get a good book on how to masturbate and practice, practice, practice. You will feel better too. :)

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Once again Choux your talking rubbish, how can just having a penis in you feel of anything other than a bit stretched at best? For gods sake stop this sort of crap will you and start listening to what people are saying if you are going to bother replying to them, instead of this no it all talk please.

Orgles,

Have a nice day! :D

Oh so you can say something positive then?

Stay on topic, please.

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I never had an orgasm for the first five years of my marriage until I became comfortable masturbating in front of my husband and then masturbating while he is penetrating me it's great you can feel every contraction and so can he

I hope that helped somewhat but I have to be of to bed now it seems I am 2 hours ahead of you guys it is now 11:43 so good night!