So I was blown off tonight... for some reason I'm taking it hard enough to write something here.

Me and this girl I know from school (not in any of my classes, thank goodness) were supposed to meet up at a local taco place around 10pm tonight. So I showered, shaved, sprayed some axe, and arrived at about 10:03. I thought she would already be there, as I am usually the last to arrive. She wasn't there... I thought "no big deal, she's just running a little late". So 10:25 rolls around so I send her a text: "hey, everything alright?" she texts back: "yeah, everything is great, how are you?" and I texted: "well im sittin here waiting for some hoe (sarcasm ladies, dont freak out) to show up" then there's a long pause, and she texts back: "oh! im sorry, i completely forgot, its too late now and im so not ready to go out, sorry" I texted back that it was okay... and then I went home.

I don't know, usually this kind of thing slides right off my back and I don't think too much about it. Maybe its because she picked up on my sarcasm immediately, and I really like that. I enjoy when I can joke around with a girl and they don't freak out.

Is it possible that she really forgot? I don't think so... I'm going to forget her, let her come to me... I made my attempt.

Is it possible she just got cold feet? Its only a taco and some conversation... nothing too scary about that.

Hahaha. Careful with the words. I'm not offended by your post but may be yow girl was. And may be the admin will close this post. I don't know how close you guys are but it seems foul I think especially if you say that to an American girl. As a pinoy girl I don't know the exact meaning of that word "h**". I mean rap songs with bad words sound okay for me but if it's in our local tongue, it's a big NOOOOOOO. But b**** did make me hurt inside one time. It is possible that she simply forgot. But not trying to catch up could have a very reasonable story behind it. You kind of slipped there and I think you owe her an apology. Assure her you didn't mean to be rude. Then ask her out again. This time, pick her up at her place with a teddy bear may be. Oooooooo. So sweeeeet! Keep it cool. And remember peace!

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Originally Posted by ihatewestseneca

So i was blown off tonight... for some reason im taking it hard enough to write something here.

me and this girl i know from school (not in any of my classes, thank goodness) were supposed to meet up at a local taco place around 10pm tonight. so i showered, shaved, sprayed some axe, and arrived at about 10:03. i thought she would already be there, as i am usually the last to arrive. she wasnt there... i thought "no big deal, she's just running a little late". so 10:25 rolls around so i send her a text: "hey, everything alright?" she texts back: "yeah, everything is great, how are you?" and i texted: "well im sittin here waiting for some hoe (sarcasm ladies, dont freak out) to show up" then theres a long pause, and she texts back: "oh! im sorry, i completely forgot, its too late now and im so not ready to go out, sorry" i texted back that it was okay... and then i went home.

i dunno, usually this kind of thing slides right off my back and i dont think too much about it. maybe its cus she picked up on my sarcasm immediately, and i really like that. i enjoy when i can joke around with a girl and they dont freak out.

is it possible that she really forgot? i dont think so... im gonna forget her, let her come to me... i made my attempt.

is it possible she just got cold feet? its only a taco and some conversation... nothin too scary about that.

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Wow, I can understand your upset. Yup, put her in the "don't need or want that pile".

It was rude at a minimum. And let's say she truly forgot, did she say, can we do it tomorrow, or next week?

I would move on and be glad you dodged that bullet.

The reason it is knawing at you, as you would never do that to someone. So don't feel so bad.

Hmm, I don't know westy, instead of her continuing to apologize (like I know many girls would) she simply said, "sorry"... she didn't even try to make up for it...

... and you were going to take her to get tacos!! The nerve of that skank

Yeah. Bump that one.

Kind of been a grind for me too... must be the weather.