I've been with my girlfriend for about 10 years on and off. We were engaged and than broke up. After that we got back together she moved into my home for about 2 months. After that she moved out we still see each other. We are still together. My question is should I move on and try it with someone else or stay and see what happens. I met this girl I liked a lot but she did something silly which I don't know If I can forgive her for. She emailed me for about a week without telling me who she was. She said she liked me but wouldn't give her name. I was also getting a lot of pranks that week which she says she did not do.I know what she did was immature but she said sorry many times to me. She is a really good person. Should I do give her a second chance.

So she tricked you to test you? Is that what I am getting? Man, that is pretty low. She may be sorry now but she will undebatably do it again (or something simular) if she wants to test you in the future. What ever you decide tread carefully with that one.

If you can both sit down and have a chat about what happened, you might be able to save this relationship. It might be a good idea to set some boundaries and ground rules, all good relationships have them. It gives each of you a certain amount of privacy. And you will also agree to what is and what is not allowed in the relationship. You could make an agreement that you will stop doing childish things like 'testing' each other. Once you agree on these things you must both stick to the rules.

After 10 years you would think the communication, and trust would be there. It isn't. Most telling is the fact, she would go to those lenghts to find out if you would cheat or not. Sorry, but unless she has a reason to think that way, that's to insecure and immature for me. That she chose a test for you, instead of talking, that would be on my mind also, and would always be worried this behavior would repeat itself. To many doubts, and RED FLAGS, here for me buddy, as it seems she is unwilling to communicate, or work with you to resolve any issues. Just me, I move on!