Well I went out last night with friends, came home, all ready for sex and yet again he pushed me away. Woke up this morning with him wispering in my ear, I've booked us for a lovely meal sat night, and gave me a kiss, I then touched him again and he pushed me away, I bagan to cry and tell him that I was vert pissed off, why wodnt he let me touch him, at this, he walked away and left for work. I was then tidying and looking in a we cubby hole for paint when I found tanning cream and aromatherapy oil!! The oil is from safeways I do not know any safeways around er at all, why did he hide these , what is going on please help:mad: :mad:

Was their areciept? They could have been their ages
Have you asked him why they are in the cubby? If you don't ask you'll never know

As for the pushing away how long has it been happening?

Could have been an ex's or somebody could have left them behind afriend,family member
You can't go jumping to conclusions until you ask him why they are in the cubby
If you know he's when he's lying then tell him so
Yeah this could end in abig argument starting with lack of trust and accusing him of being unfaithful but you can't let this eat away at you it'll drive you crazy and crying infrunt of him won't solve anything

Ask him and don't assume. Soon!

I agree with the others, ask him! Relationships fail when couples don't ask. If you constantly assume and never know, that's an end in sight, a break up end.
There are many reasons I could think of for the things you found, but ask HIM!
I do agree, he, as in man, pushes you away... Ask him, I would love to know, but it's none of my business!
Just make sure you are open to him, and you always ask him the questions.

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Originally Posted by svatnsdal

I agree with the others, ask him! Relationships fail when couples don't ask. If you constantly assume and never know, that's an end in sight, a break up end.
There are many reasons I could think of for the things you found, but ask HIM!
I do agree, he, as in man, pushes you away... Ask him, I would love to know, but it's none of my business!
Just make sure you are open to him, and you always ask him the questions.

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Guys you are all rite, I asked him and he was truthful, the cream was his though apparently the spray had been her for a long time, there is so much going on I'm just making up silly things in my owm head thank you all for your very honist and helpfil replys