All right so I've been thinking maybe I should go on the pill in case me and my boyfriend have sex... and I've asked my mum joking around if she would put me on the pill but this is real and I don't really know how to ask her like I don't want her to get mad at me for having sex or something but I just want to be safe

How old are you??

Well I am 13 but I'm going to be 14 in May

I think you should just say what you have posted

That you want to go on the pill just in case you and your boyfriend decide that your going to have sex and you would rather be safe than sorry

I was asking your age because you could go to the doctors and ask yourself

Your very young to be having sex its not all that great at such a young age,you have school to think about and having fun.
Your mum will go mad I thought you was going to say 15 or 16 but god your just ababy hun don't rush into having sex wait until your older and if your still together with your boyfriend in ayear or 2 then go for it but you shouldn't be at it now I know you want to be safe yeah I really do get that but your 13 nearly 14 your serposed to be having fun and enjoying being young not having sex your going to rush into this and regret it when you do

Well I really really like this guy and I'm scared the only way I can keep him is by having sex with him I mean in a way I want to have sex but I don't want to do it but I want to keep him so ill do anything to keep him and that's why I need to ask my mum about the pill

Well I really like this guy and I don't want to lose him and I'm sccared the only way I can keep him is if I have sex with him and I want to do it safely

If he really likes you, he will date you because he does, If having sex is the only way to keep him, he is not worth keeping. You have years of dating ahead and what will the 3 ot 6boyfriend in 3 or 4 years think after they know you have had sex with 4 other guys and already have one kid.

Sex will wait for years,

Well I think you shouldn't have sex with him just because that's what he wants are you mad,you shouldn't have sex with anybody just because you think your going to lose them

When you have sex it should be for all the right reasons not the wrong ones because if you do it for the wrong reasons you will regret it it will stick with you forever its not something you can change or take back

Like She Said.. Your Very Young And Shouldnt Be Having Sex.. But I Know Thats Not Going To Stop You.. You Should Ask Your Mom.. Write Her A Letter And Put It Where She Can See.. Or Maybe Text Message Her If She Does That.. My Mom Asked Me Over And Over At The Age Of 15 If I Needed To Be On Birth Control And I Told Her No Because I Was Embarrased.. And What Happened? I Got Pregnant.. And Life Was VERY Hard Having A Baby And Still Being In School.. Who Cares If He ONly Wants You For Sex.. Because If Thats The Case, LEAVE HIM.. Hes Not Even Worth Your Time.. There Are Clinics That Will Give You Birth Control Without Your Parents Permission, Im Pretty Sure.. Well Here In Cincinnati, Ohio They Do.. So Be Careful.. :p