Relationship with a divorcée
Let me start by telling it from the start. I went out with this divorcée whom I meet online. He has been divorced for about 1 year. We both liked each other right from the start and started dating seriously 2-3 months ago. I did tell him earlier on that Im looking for serious relationship only.
He dropped a bombshell one day by telling me that he treats our relationship as casual relationship first and see how it goes from there. He seems to be afraid of being committed. I tried to break up with him twice as I feel insecure about the whole thing.
I've broken up with him last 2 weeks ago but still miss him a lot. I sms him to ask if he still got any luv/feelings for me, he says got feelings initially but now dun know. I miss him so much until I ask him if we can have another try if he really have feelings. He says dun want me to hurt more deeply if I continue on with him.
Since then, I've been trying to forget him but I still care a lot about him. His marriage lasted for 12 yrs of which 5-6 last years turned bad. Do u think 1 yr is sufficient to recover? Should I try to get back to him again? If I let it be, do you think there is a chance he will come back to me after he recovers.. given some time?
What should I really do? I'm kind of depressed now.. Please help...