Hi, my name is Briana Marissa Ramirez, I'm 14 years old, I am in a relationship with my boyfriend, Joshua Lewis. He's 15. We plan on getting married when we're older. He's also bisexual and so am I, but my only fear is will he take another boyfriend. I fear he will leave(or cheat on)me for another guy. And my parents don't know I'm bisexual, but one time when we found this out, 2 years ago, my mom and dad nearly killed me. I often told myself "I wuzn't Bi" just to please them. But I now know, I can't hide it anymore. I'm bi, but I'm scared to tell them, tell them that I'm positive, I'm bi. Can someone please help me and tell me what to do :confused:

No one can tell you what to do or how to feel.

I will tell you that a lot of teens go through sexual curiousity and a lot of them come out of it. You are only 14, so don't label yourself as bi-sexual just yet. Give it some time.

It is very risky to be dating someone that is bi if you are sexually active. You can easily contract diseases, especially these days.

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Originally Posted by bEaUtIfUlbRuNeTtE

No one can tell you what to do or how to feel.

I will tell you that a lot of teens go through sexual curiousity and a lot of them come out of it. You are only 14, so don't label yourself as bi-sexual just yet. Give it some time.

It is very risky to be dating someone that is bi if you are sexually active. You can easily contract diseases, especially these days.

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I understand, and yes he's sexually active, but he's a virgin, honestly before we got together, he wuzn't sexually active, hehe, it's funny, after he met me he became sexually active, he promised me he wouldn't go by the bi rule and I promised neither would I, but I don't know if he can stay that way forever. I blame myself for why he is sexually active, you see, before I met him, I wasn't a virgin. Or so I thought, hard to explain, but I told him things about sex that he may try with me.. . And possibly other people

He's sexually active meaning oral sex. Am I correct?

There isn't a difference between intercourse and oral. A person can still get an STD from both ways.

Not exactly, by active, I mean everything, and me and him haven't done anything, but he wants to, every time me and him talk, he either say "baby, i want to have ice cream" (we came up with a code for sex meaning ice cream) and I usually respond "not right now" it's usually play sex(like we never do it, but we act like we do) but he's starting to want to, and I know I may get a disease, that's why we haven't done anything!

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