My brother started to date this girl she has 2 kids.. wich is fine . But then she wanted to get back with her "baby daddy" to keep the family together. Fine can respect that. Then she screws this guy and my brothers shower leaves evidence behind.. he still talks to her now she says she pregnant.. n I'm just lost. I don't know what to say to him.. or even what I should do. Im vry hard headed and very protective over my brother. So this is all very hard for me to just sit back and take. I want to beat this girl down.. lol I don't want this child to be my brothers. What should I do?? Do I talk to him and if so what do I say. I tried tough love tried to be understanding. Help me please!!

Caring sister

There is not much you can do because it's his life after all.

Tell him you don't feel comfortable with him dating a 'whore' and you fear that she will hurt him.

A caring sister, of course you will have these emotions, this is your brother, but the reality is that you are on the outside looking in, you don't know all the details of their relationship, and you may think you know or have ideas but remember when it's our loved one subconsciously we become biased and not see the whole picture.. You really don't know what goes on in their household and why he allows her to do this to him... However as the above post there is nothing you can do.. it's his decision

Support him in what ever he decides to do and suggest a paternity test. If your brother is as important as you say, no matter what you need to support his decisions.

Like the others have said be supportive of him; but also tell him that he needs to insist on a paternity test before his name can be on the birth certificate or else he could end up having to pay child support for a kid that may not even be his.

Good Luck! I had a similar situation with my family. My brother and his wife and I had a falling out about three to four weeks ago. I went from talking to my brother almost every day to not even being able to be in the same house as him. Every one tells me to stay away for a while and everything will be OK. Then they tell me that this is his life and all I can do is support him. Well personally that sucks. I have never stood by and let anyone treat my brother the way his "wife" has treated him. Now I have to, unfortunately it is his wife that treats him this way. I'm sorry to say, that you too will have to step aside and let this relationship run it's coarse.

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Originally Posted by Guest

Why don't u just kick her butt? The world would be fine if it just "happened" to lose a few whores like her. If she's already a mother ****er, why should she get to date your brother?

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Why would you give advice through violence?

Whores don't learn by getting their butts kicked. They learn when they get an STD or an unwanted pregnancy.

I'm not speaking for all whores though.