[F]I have this guy whom have been dating for a year, he is kind, generous and he is the kind of guy I can share every thing with but, the only problem is that, am not sure if he is the right person for me being the fact that, he is muslim, boring in bed, tight with his money and I am still a little bit shy around him after a year. When ever I ask him 4 money, he always have an excuse, I have to ask him to borrow me money just for him not to think that am with him just 4 his money. I said let me try someone else to compare with, I did that and I found out that I am enjoying myself with him, he is also king but I don't see him that often. I love the first guy but am just not sure if we are meant to be together because we both want different things. What should I do, should I just let him go or should I give him time to adjust or have a break to figure out what I want.

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Originally Posted by dupeasana

[F]i have this guy whom have been dating fora year, he is kind, generous and he is the kind of guy i can share every thing with but, the only problem is that, am not sure if he is the right person 4 me being the fact that, he is muslim, boring in bed, tight with his money and i am still a little bit shy around him after a year. when ever i ask him 4 money, he always have an excuse, i have to ask him to borrow me money just 4 him not to think that am with him just 4 his money. i said let me try someone else to compare with, i did that and i found out that i am enjoying my self with him, he is also king but i dont see him that often. I love the first guy but am just not sure if we are meant to be together due to the fact that we both want different things. what should i do, should i just let him go or should i give him time to adjust or have a break to figure out what i want.

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Take a break. Do not lower or give up on the things you wish to accomplish out of life. By you description of your relationship, he does not seem to be the best fit for you.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/search...archid=2606403, You are trying so hard to find that love, and all you have written about are the games, you and they play. I would suggest you stay out of relationships, until you are more grounded into who you are, and what your about. I am so confused about the cast of characters that your involved with, so I know you are too, so back off them all, and learn to love yourself, and put this confusion to rest. If your happy with yourself, someone will want to share it with you. You won't be confused then.