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  • Mar 31, 2008, 02:53 AM
    gemma_g1024
    Can anyone lend a hand?
    I've fallen in love with this guy but I lied to him and he found out and now I'm getting told he hates me but every time I tlk to him it seems as though he doesn't hate me, it seems as though he's just upset but I don't no what's going on

    What should I do??
  • Mar 31, 2008, 03:38 AM
    Username Here
    Ask to talk to him in a private place. Tell him how you feel and that you're sorry for the lie.

    After that, you can't do anything. Its up to him.

    With luck, he'll realize you're truly sorry and forgive you.

    Hope this helps,
    Louis.
  • Apr 1, 2008, 02:33 AM
    JBeaucaire
    You do know what's going. You lied, got caught and it's made your relationship uncomfortable. That's it. Nothing more. Nothing else you need to remember.

    Do you know what being "contrite" means? It means when you do wrong you actually ARE sorry and do what is necessary to make up for it. What is necessary now is that you apologize, never lie to him again, and wait patiently for him to get over it.

    Patiently.

    Oh, and you stop putting any credence in what other people tell you his behalf. You will trust what he does, most of what he says, and what he does over anything you hear from a third party. Agreed?

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