My boyfriends lied to me!
Basically it all started from yesterday in work, my boyfriend (as some lads if no most do) got a little silly in front of the other lads in work and was showing off, calling me by my surname, making jokes I didn't really find funny. I took it with a pinch of salt, but that night told him that I felt a bit of a fool, he didn't take it too well, and said I upset him as he thought he was just having fun. We decided to not see each other as we were tired, and a little upset, and frustrated and I needed a bit of space, so for the night we didn't really text either.
Fast asleep this morning and I got a text at 5.30 from him saying 'just woked up' I text back and said have you or have you been out? He didn't answer the question and just replied with 'i need a nice text from you' I did not send one, and again asked if he had been out, he sent the same message again, and then sent a few more that didn't make sense. I told him I was going back to sleep.
Today he acted as if it was all normal so having given him a hard time last night I went along, but suspected it all day. It wasn't until tonight he was singing my praises and he slipped up about going out. He came clean and said his mate rang him and said go out as his mate had just had an argument with his girlfriend and split up with her, he said he didn't see it as an issue as it was just the two of them.
I said well why did you lie to me, he said he was drunk, didn't want to upset me anymore. I told him I don't take lying well as I'm 110% trustworthy and would never lie.
I told him tonight I wanted to be alone, so asked him to leave the texts until tomorrow, I'm really upset by it, and really hurt.
I don't want to leave him, I love him and I know how much I mean to him and how much he needs me, but I'm so hurt I don't know how to move on.
Is it once a liar always a liar? Or should I just put it behind me and give him another chance, given the fact we were in an arguement/disagreement, when he went out, but then now I know he lies, what happens if he was with someone else last night, kissing them. My mind is ticking over time, the more I think the worse I get the more sad I become the thicker my tear is, what shall I do?