OK so I have been trying to become pregnant for about 6-9 months and nothing yet and I think I have a idea why. I don't get my period regular and I'm talking about ill get it one month and then I don't get it for like 4 months. Like I just had it in February and I missed this month. I did gain some weight and I was thinking that might stop me from becoming pregnant too.
Do you have any idea why I haven't gottin pregnant?


-Hksweets21:confused:

There could be several factors for not getting pregnant. Women with irregular cycles tend to have a harder time. Weight isn't necessarily a factor. I know a few large women that got pregnant with no problem. You may be trying to hard as well. If you try to hard then you stress yourself out. Don't try so hard. Just have a little fun. You may also want to see your doctor. There is some medicine out there that can help you.

You NEED to see your doctor about this.

You are not actually considered to be even "having trouble" getting pregnant until you've been trying for at LEAST a year, by the way. It takes the average couple up to a year to get pregnant... so I'm betting that focusing on getting pregnant is actually one of the things STOPPING you from getting pregnant.

I know it's hard to stop looking at the pink elephant in the living room, but seriously... you just have to have fun playing Monopoly with the elephant and forget that it's pink.

What are you DOING to try to get pregnant? You have irregular periods, so that can't be helping, but are you tracking your BBT? Have you worked with any ovulation kits? Are you on prenatal vitamins?

Are you either a teenager or older than 35? Both of these age groups can have issues with pregnancies and getting pregnant.

Only AFTER a full medical examination, and medical history, plus a lineup of your current medications, and your current lifestyle, etc, could we tell you for sure why you aren't getting pregnant---which is why you need to see a doctor about it.