so I am a 19 years old want to ask a 18 years old girl for prom we both senior but she gratuated first sememster and.. problem is... we just most text over the phone... never really hang out and uhm... dont no hahaha

I asked her twice to go hang out but first she coulnt b.c of last minute manager called her to work... asked her the second time and I tell her I couldn't the last minute b.c somehow I no that she will have to be busy again... or some reason...


I don't no.. should I risk it... my heart tel me to that I should b.c there nothing to lose... the worst is she say no... but also scared to risk the friendship..

ahhhhhhhh help ? ^^ it high school .lol...

GO for it! :D

The biggest risk is not taken one.

Well... I was about to ask her... but turn out that she really likes this one dude and she lost her virginity to him 2 weeks ago and this dude is going to iraq for 4 years starting next week...

And she willing to wait for him... so.. whatever right ?

I am sure you can find someone that you can be just as happy with that would consider it an honor to go to the prom with you.

Ask her!! And keep us updated ;)

It looks like he is too late

You I am too late huh ?

I wouldn't come between them. If she gets tired of waiting 4 years or more and starts seeing other guys you might have a chance.

Well I don't think that I have the time to wait for her... prom is right around the corner now and it just high school... I am not going to take anything serious...

You might have to take her boyfriend serious:(

why?. if he really like her like she think he would ? He wouldn't have sex with her the first place b.c he will be leaving soon.. he should have no that...

if he really love her as much as she does to him?. he wouldn't date her now b.c he going to make her wait for him... missing him.. and might be getting hurt along the way...

I want to tell her all that but.. couldnt... X_X

The way she is looking at it right now is she is head over heels with him and will want to spend every minute she can with him and have memories of her and him at the prom. If he asks her I am sure she will want to go with him. You can always try and ask her to go with you but be prepared for NO as an answer.

Nah.. I won't ask her... back then before I didn't no that she with him.. . I would take the risk, b.c it might worth it.. but now ? Nah..

And he can't go to prom with her... he just fly to California.. and soon will be leaving to iraq.. so there no way that she will go with him..

But since they are together... as meaning boyfriend/girlfriend or not I don't care... I never want to break anything for anyone