Hello. Being get aroused by my BF and before sex I get very wet, I mean my vagina becomes too wet. And my BF does not like it. As he comes up to me he shrinks from my vagina as it is wet. Why is it so? And how to do it less wet?:(
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Hello. Being get aroused by my BF and before sex I get very wet, I mean my vagina becomes too wet. And my BF does not like it. As he comes up to me he shrinks from my vagina as it is wet. Why is it so? And how to do it less wet?:(
You tell him that next time you have sex, you want him less aroused, so that he is less hard.
Being wet is the female equivalent of having an erection--the wetter you are, the more turned on you are.
Tell him to get over himself (and probably tell him to stop masturbating, since that's can make a man desensitized) and to enjoy that you get that turned on.
I'll second that. I've known women that have gotten so wet when turned on it actually ran down their leg. He should be thankfull she doesn't have a dryness problem. Use a towel under you to save the bed sheets and tell him to get over it or you will find a new guy.
You have a boyfriend who is a fierce masturbator... really tight fisted and fast. :(
*He* has a real problem now because a normal female, all turned on and moist, a real velvet underground, doesn't give him sensation.
He can use some counselling from a good man about *adult* sexuality... all the different feelings involved, physical and emotional, and why it is good to have a *partner*!!
Never blame yourself in your relationships with men, girl. :):):)
To me there is no such thing as to wet. It is the best feeling in the world to me. To know that I got my fiancée that turned on is great. I don't know what else to say I never heard of such a thing. I assume he does not go down on you :( You don't want to make it less wet cause you are going to be in for a rough time and so will he. I am blown away by this question!
If your boyfriend is disturbed by your "over" moistness ask him if he would rather you be dry and he can try and get you wet.
And if he says he would rather you be too dry then too wet then keep sex from him and let him know what dry really is.
Be strong girl.
Good things are near.
LMAO, what a perfect answer.Quote:
and if he says he would rather you be too dry then too wet then keep sex from him and let him know what dry really is.
I think that you might get to horny cause you know you are ging to have sex.Quote:
Originally Posted by monicamarch
This guy needs a lesson on women. Too wet, there's not such thing honey. Tell him to get over it or you will get over him. Good Luck.
Once again-oh brother... time to find another partner..
... spoiled bastard.
Actually, there are plenty of gorgeous women who feel dry, tight and "perfect." These women live on porn screens and are connected, through a mind link, to his hand.
Real women get wet. Does he prefer fake ones?
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Originally Posted by monicamarch
I have the same problem (that's how my husband made me feel... as a problem) and we barely had intercourse over the past 20 years because I was to wet and he couldn't feel anything so he couldn't keep an erection!
Well 6 years ago I was so frustrated that I had an affair... to my surprise I learned that there is no such thing as too wet... its an equivalent of a "hard on" to a man.. If you enjoy a healthy sex life... leave this man.. his way of excusing is ineptness is by assigning blame and putting you down..
I felt that I wasted 20 years of my prime and finally filed for divorce.. and now feel liberated!! The only regrets I have is how to make up 20 years of "drought"!
I think he needs to grow up. And , in my opinion, there can be a situation where it's "too wet". When you and your partner are going at it and it sounds like a washing machine,, now that is too wet for me!!
And I bet you have far longer than a 3-5 minute session as well.Quote:
Originally Posted by Kikkis188
Dry tight women might feel a bit more but unless your objective it to get in, get off, get out as quickly as possible the losser wetter woman is better.
Personally I'd preffer a hour or two hour session to a five minute one myself.
Honey there is no such thing as too wet. I was speaking to a guy and he said that his girlfriend is the same way and he does not like it. But he says that goes to show how much his woman wants him so he is unperturbed. He says he enjoys her anyway
Well I totally disagree with everyone else! You CAN get too wet. Intercourse is almost impossible with me because I am sooooooo wet that a penis can't even stay in my vagina. It just constantly slides out. I have tried keeping tissues around and trying to soak all the wetness over and over, but it just keeps coming back. I really want to ask a doctor about it, but it's sooooo embarrassing! Believe me, this is a REAL issue and I can'T even tell you how bad it sucks! I can barely feel anything and either can the guy. It's just like a pool of water! UGH!!
Young guys don't know anatomy that well...
And young girls wait around when they are being degraded because their self-esteem
Is still being formed.
My advice: talk about it and how it is 100% normal... and if he still rejects you - walk away.
As always - use protection and focus on school and career FIRST... SEX is no substitute for a future you control.
If you don't mind me asking but how old is your boyfriend? It sounds like he doesn't have a clue! We are designed to get horny, we are designed to get wet so that there isn't too much friction and men are designed to get turned on that we're turned on! If he seriously has an issue with it then you are with the wrong guy honey, and possibly he is with the wrong gender!
Good news - it's HIS problem....not YOURS.
I have to laugh because ANY male that is not a kid that reads a topic headline "Wet Vagina"
Would go... : "Sounds hot!"
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