Hi, I´m in 8th grade. I´m 14. There´s this girl at my school. I kind of like her, she´s cute, but she stalks me, and follows me around where ever I go. She gives me a lot of eye contact. She once asked me if I wanted to take a shower with her. I didn´t answer. She also touches me sometimes. Why would she be doing this sutff? I´m really confused. This is a very akward question, but when she´s around me she does weired stuff. I don't want to heart her feelings, but how can I sovle this? I mean she is very nice. Please help

Sounds like someone's got a crush on you. If you're not interested let her down easy. Try the "you're really nice, but i'm only interested in being friends right now." approach

Also, the sexual stuff will continue unless you tell her specifically to stop or something else takes her attentions. A woman wants what a woman wants.

"I think you're nice and all, but the "let's take a shower stuff" and the touching me is really start to creep me out. Would you stop that, please? I would really appreciate it. OK? So, how about those Lakers?"

You need to actually say the words "stop" to her and then move on like it's no big deal, and she will hopefully follow suit.

If THAT doesn't work, do you have a trusted friend who can repeat it for you? Only if necessary.

Sorry hun, but it sounds to me like she has a major crush on you. Maybe, she thinks that you like her. Are your signals mixed up. And to stop her, your best bet is to be straight forward because if you're not, it will continue. Hope it helped.

Nikki

Well how did she say "lets shower" mabey she was kidding around, pl at my schol say that kind of stuff all the time in a "friendly" joking haha way. But if she was serious than you do need to set her straight, and if you honestly do feel like she won't stop looking at you and you're getting the stalker vibe than you really do have to confront her... tell her she's sweet but you're gettting the wrong idea or however you want to approach this situation.. good luck.

She most likely has a major crush on you and wants you to give her attention but feels awkward about it herself. She is probably trying to find a way to get you to like her and ask her out. You can choose to ignore her and it continue or talk to her and let her know you are not interested or give her a chance.

Since you "asked" why is she doing this" I would say it is time for a talk with your dad or other adult about why she is doing these things