I am 16 and my boyfriend and I have had sex first time was unprotected and all the other times were protected he has told me that he never ejaculated in me even with a condom on I had my period in march in the beginning of the month I can't remember the exact date but my periods never seem to be at the same time I know its not the end of march yet but this afternoon around 3 330 I started feeling sick... I have a bad head ache and I'm really moody and I got this sudden heat flash... I talked to my boyfriend about the way that I feel and he was really scared I'm not sure if the way that I feel is because I should be getting ready to start because I'm normally really why a week or so before I start but now that my boyfriend talked to me about it he has got me worried. It was also my first time with him and I was wondering if having sex for the first time does that do anything to your period like set it back any? I'm just really freaking out right now we have both decided that after we get through this we are not going to have sex again until we both know that we would be ready for a kid... can anyone help me figure things out please
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Thank you so much

Also if you are underage do you have to have a parent with you to go get an abortion in thr state of Ohio?

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Originally Posted by crazyboutyu22

also if you are underage do you have to have a parent with you to go get an abortion in thr state of ohio?

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I would say if you are underage a parent and preferably also the "father" should accompany you. An adult does not need her parents. But I am not from Ohio, so I can't answer this specific question.
Are you sure about an abortion?:(
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A parent should be with you, but they will have had to sign the medical forms to allow this. They may not have to be "with" you ** but should be** but they will have to had gone in and signed all the paper work to allow it to happen.

Also the father of the child that is being terminated should be there also, and take responsibility for his actions also.

Wait, did you even find out for sure whether you're pregnant? Did you have unprotected sex before or after your last period? Those symptons could be symptoms of about a million other things. Just because you get a headache or feel a little nauseous a while after having unprotected sex doesn't automatically mean you're pregnant so if I were you I would take a hpt before I stressed about it too much (trust me, as scary as it is to have to take the test, the relief afterwards is totally worth it. Well, assuming it's the results you want.)

Whoa!! I think you are putting the cart WAAAAY before the horse here!! First things first, find out if you are in fact pregnant. Those over the counter pregnancy tests are very accurate, as I took them when I was pregnant with my two children. To be 100% accurate, you would need to visit a doctor, as I believe that you would need to have a doctor's written proof that you are pregnant before a clinic would even attempt the procedure. However, the clinic would probably perform their own test prior to the procedure now that I think of it.

Think carefully about your choice in this. I am really pro-choice, but take the time to really think about this choice. IF you ARE pregnant and you decide to have an abortion, you also need to think about some kind of therapy after the procedure is done. You may not think that you will need it, but believe, you will. If it does not affect you now, that does not mean that it will never affect you sometime in your future. You need to make sure that you are able to get in touch with your feelings, even if they are numb at the moment.