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  • Mar 25, 2008, 11:06 AM
    13sldr
    Weird Dreams
    So I finnaly got a girlfriend, and she makes me a lot happier than any other girl I have ever been with, and that's good, because as some of you know my mom is deployed right now in afganistan. She will be there until december-ish. This is her second deyployment in the past year. And I have had a hard time adjusting to it. But that is all beside the point.

    Well as I have said this girl makes me really happy, I can't stop smiling, but for some reasong the past two nights I have had a dream that we broke up, the first one, me and her were texting or IMing, I can't remember which, but she was telling me about how she misses her exs, not just one but a few or so, so I finnaly said enough and I broke up with here. The second one was more of the aftermath of the first one. I would just walk around and wait for her to call.

    Can someone tell me what this means or even if I should be worried about it?
  • Mar 25, 2008, 03:28 PM
    Bricole
    Well it's only natural that as soon as we are given something thatwe really wanted or needed we get scared we are going to lose it.personaly I don't think you need to worry things sound like they're running smoothly. Is a case of "too good to be true"?you are scared of losing what you love. You obv. Love your mum and she is in Afghanistan and you are scared you will now lose your girlfriend. Personally I think if you are super worried just ask her she can clearifly for you.

    I hope this helps

    Hope your mum comes back safely

    X
  • Mar 26, 2008, 05:36 PM
    o NitSuA o
    IMO dreams are expressions of sub-conscious wants, fears etc. It could be that you like her so much the thought of breaking up is something you don't want to even think about. Then again I have had dreams that have shown me the future and that is where Déjà vu basically comes from so maybe you are going to break up. I wouldn't worry about it too much but maybe you need to have a talk with her about how the relationship is going... good luck =)
  • Mar 26, 2008, 09:04 PM
    13sldr
    Thank you both, I have talked to her about the dreams and neither of us plan on breaking up with each other for a while, so I probably am just worried about losing her, but thank you guys

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