All right well I had been going out with my girl for about 8 months and she said she wanted a break. We don't live that close to each other but that was never a big problem. I love her very much and I she constantly reminds me the same thing. But you might know what I mean she started hanging out with a new friend then treated me in a different way you know? And she also started hanging out with one of her ex- boyfriends again. He was causing her a lot of stress and she thought if she was nice to him for a change he would not cause her more stress than she already has. So she did and always with other people and assured me nothing was going on and I know nothing did. But we hadn't talked much for a few days but she had just told me how much she loved me the night before and she said she needed a break. I thought it was for another guy but she even got mad when I asked that. She said JUST A BREAK. So I said I would wait for her. She said I could go out with other girls she didn't want me to have to be alone. I said no that's not right. But she decided to go out with her ex again cause he was like begging her after we started the break. She promised me nothing would happen between them and everything but I don't know.. and then a few days later we talked and she said it was not making things easier and she missed me a lot and still wanted to be with me forever... but not go back out yet... she said she needed time for school... but I know she's going out with that other guy now... its not the same as we were together of anything but she still is. So I don't know what I should do. I'm going to go out with other girls probably but I don't know if I she go back to her after. I sort of feel like I'm just going to be a fall back guy if he doesn't work out.she assures me she didn't leave me to go out with him and she still wears a bracelet and necklace that's something between us and still won't take off. But I think it all just might be bull. What do you think?