I had been with my 40 yr old ex for three years until recently, before we got together I had kissed the daughter because I was liking her a little bit.to this very day I don't know if the daughter has kept it a secret because I'm with her mother now.the daughter is .now my problem is I want to bring up when up the time when I kissed her because my eye is on her now.but I don't know how she would take it and I don't want to make anything akwad.plus I don't want her to go back to her other who I have been with after what happen between us and say that I brung it up.becuz I do still have feelings for my ex.im trying to see how I can bring this up if I should at all to the daughter? what should I do or say?

HUH? Try proof reading before posting. Its very unclear whethere you are seeing the daughter's mother or not. The relationships are all muddled and we don't know the ages or what. This needs to be rewritten so its intelligible.

I agree with Scott. Read your post before posting it. I can't make heads or tails of it.

Ok, this is a little better, but there are still a lot of spelling and punctuation errors. We have a spell check here, you should use it.

But, if I understand you, you have been with this woman for 40 yr old woman for 3 years, you recently broke up with her and now want to hit on her daughter who you once kissed before you started seeing her mother. And you want to know whether you should.

Well if this woman is 40 that would make her daughter in her 20s. How old are you and how is the daughter? Because it certainly sounds like you should be running from this situation.

I'm 21 and the daughter is 23.

And you're with a 40 year old?

1. congrats. Really.

2. I think there's a rule in every relationship on earth where you just don't date a family member once you've ended a relationship. You can date a friend of your ex... but even then it's still sensitive grounds... but a family member? That's rough.

Best advice... run. No need sticking around here. You've muddled the waters already. No need making things worse.

Ok, so at 18 you took up with a woman around 40 after kissing her daughter and this lasted 3 years.

Frankly I would RUN from that family. I agree with Sneeze, asking the daughter out at this point is a recipe for trouble. I would suggest you get a copy of The Graduate and ignore the happy ending.

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I had been with my 40 yr old ex for three years until recently, before we got together i had kissed the daughter becuz i was liking her a little bit.to this very day i dont know if the daughter has kept it a secret becuz im with her mother now.the daughter is .now my problem is i want to bring up when up the time when i kissed her becuz my eye is on her now.but i dont know how she would take it and i dont want to make anything akwad.plus i dont want her to go back to her other who i hav been with after what happen between us and say that i brung it up.becuz i do still hav feelings for my ex.im trying to see how i can bring this up if i should at all to the daughter??what should i do or say?

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How about leaving the daughter alone... isn't she a little young for you..

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how about leaving the daughter alone...isn't she a little young for you..?

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No, his ex was a little to old for him. He is 21 the daughter is 23. He's still younger.

Nothing like a good daughter to bring home the meat for mama... Who know's mama might be happy to see him with daughter since she knows if he is prime rib or not?

Of course the daughter might not like the idea of regurgitation very much.

I need a drink for this one...

Why don't you clear the deck and start fresh... the situation doesn't sound healthy to me..

Umm... what's a fur baby?

Lmao

Fur baby? I missed something. Where did that come from? Hahaha

Leave mama and daughter alone, your town has to be bigger than that.

Sounds like Jerry Springer to me... Anyway I agree with all the post above, leave the drama and the mama! If you want order don't even consider dating the daughter... Run Forest Run! Lol... Okay that was a bit over the top, but seriously don't even think about keeping it in the family... As talaniman said your town has to be bigger than that.

There was a user who was holding... something and she urged our poor lost boy to get a fur baby... call me crazy... but that's a true story... ha..

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I agree with Scott. Read your post before posting it. I can't make heads or tails of it.
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There was a user who was holding ...something and she urged our poor lost boy to get a fur baby.......call me crazy.....but that's a true story....ha..

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LOL that is her signature, she wasn't telling him to adopt a fur baby LMAO