Does he want a relationship with me or is he pulling away?
Ok so I posted this in relationships, and got some nice answers... there are some additional details I wanted to post, so I hope you guys can give me some insight. Very confused right now... thanks...
So here's the deal... met this guy last year a few weeks before he got deployed to iraq. We went out a couple of times, then he was serving over there for about 7 months. Within this time, we wrote letters and kept in touch. He got back a couple of months ago, and we have been seeing each other on a regualr basis ever since.
He went home on leave, and asked me to fly up and stay a few days in his hometown. I met his family, and most of his friends. His actions tell me he wants a relationship, but he is not verbally very open with me and I have a hard time reading him. Recently, on his myspace bulletin, when asked about his relationship status he put "not sure". I care for this guy a great deal, I am crazy for him! In a good way lol... please help me with this! I am scared that if I ask him point blank how he feels, it mihgt scare him away. He makes a lot of effort to see me... I just feel we are holding back from each other. What do you guys think? Additionally, he went home yesterday for a couple of days for the easter holiday, and did not ask me to go. I understand he may need a couple of days to himself, but he hasn't called me and has barley texted me. It's about an 11 hour drive, and I knew he would be getting there really late last night, so I texted him and asked him if he could let me know when he got there safely. Still have not heard from him..?. kinda confused right now... is he pulling away?
