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  • Mar 22, 2008, 01:14 AM
    cissy0801
    a complicated love story
    OK so... there is this girl called Y who met this guy X over bebo. So X starts to fall in love with Y but Y doesn't really love him back. Y however loves Z and Z doesn't even know Y existsed...

    X has 2 girls chasing him... A and B. Y one day decides she will PRETEND to like X. Some confusion happens and she decides to make a story up that she dies and a lot of things happen. Y asks me and another friend F to help her. I accept but X starts talking to me over msn how he was really sad and cried. Of course, I was confused so F told me the whole story.

    I firstly felt bad for X and secondly knew the story will be let out and Y shouldn't just make up a story and so she should be truthful because at that time I thought she loved X.

    I finally told X and sent an email to Y and told her I told X the story wasn't true.

    Y now is holding a grudge at me which she claims she's not and she told her parents everything. Y told me that she's starting a new life and doesn't want to talk to me anymore for some unknown reason. I told her that if she doesn't like any part of me I'll see if I can change but she just said end of story then hanged up. She says she'll never be friends like we use to before which leaves me confused...

    B now makes up these stupid stories I love X which I don't. I don't know what to do about Y I want to be friends like we use to but she's refusing to talk to me and reply to any form of communication. I'm also confused about X if I should still talk to him. I'm in this really awkward position please give advice!
  • Mar 22, 2008, 02:25 AM
    marshmellowpuff
    Something like that happened to me:

    1. Do you really want to hang around with someone manipulative? (Y)

    2. You should not have to change for your real friends

    3. Ignore B they'll get over it
  • Mar 23, 2008, 10:57 PM
    barbiechick123
    yeah, I think Y is being a b**** and munipulitive, she shouldn't have to put you in that position... and for B just ignore her and she'll shut up if it doesn't annoy you. And for X, if u like him as a person and you feel like you should be there for him than u can still talk to him. Its your feelings and your life.
  • Apr 7, 2008, 06:50 AM
    blacksinz
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by barbiechick123
    yeah, i think Y is being a b**** and munipulitive, she shouldnt have to put you in that position... and for B just ignore her and she'll shut up if it doesnt annoy you. and for X, if u like him as a person and you feel like you should be there for him than u can still talk to him. its ur feelings and ur life.

    True true. Well if why is your true friend then she should not have done this to u. She should understand what your going through. Honestly don change for anyone but yourself its not worth it. Good luck!

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