Why do younger men (20 something) like older women (35 +)? Are they just looking for a good time? Do they ever think that there could be a future? :confused:

I think it has to do with experience, an older women knows what she wants and doesn't play games like younger ones. As far as a future, no I don't think they are thinking about the future, it's more about the whole M.I.L.F. thing. Just my opinion though. This question could be asked from the older women's perspective too (Cougar).

I completely agree... even in college, girls still play mind games and are at times, very emotionally needy.

I, myself, being a relatively independent guy who 1) HATES mind games and 2) doesn't like clingy girls... find myself attracted to older women I meet at bars. By older, I don't mean 40... I'm 22... I usually end up talking to 26 - 27 year olds.

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Originally Posted by whyohwhy

Why do younger men (20 something) like older women (35 +)? Are they just looking for a good time? Do they ever think that there could be a future? :confused:

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Usually there is not a long-term future. Relationships are based on mutual interests... now apart from sex what would they have to talk about?

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Originally Posted by Foxyarse

Usually there is not a long-term future. Relationships are based on mutual interests...now apart from sex what would they have to talk about?

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What do they want to be when they grow up... hahaha! Just kidding! There could be common interests...

Many divorced women in their late 30's early 40's might be fairly new to the work force... like many 20 something men. They could talk about their goals, where they want to be in the next 5-10 years careerwise.

Activities - hiking, camping, white water rafting, tennis, etc.
Sports - football, hockey, boxing, etc.

How cute I look in my new sexy dress and spikey shoes... :p