Me and my ex-wife talk 2-3 times a day usually on the phone. We have a child together so most of the time its about him. We've been apart for almost 5 yrs but we've continued to do this the whole time. We have way too much interaction for her being re-married and me having a girl friend. We haven't done anything together but I can feel the attraction. Ive tried to get over her but I cant. I still love her and I feel like she does to I'm just not sure. We were very young when we got married and we weren't ready for marriage so we moved on. I just have this feeling that we both feel the same way about each other now but neither one of us has had the courage to tell the other. Her husband and my girlfriend have both said that we still act like were married multiple times and I finally realized that they are right. If we aren't going to be together then we need to stop talking and acting like we do. I think Im going to tell her that I still love her and ask her how she feels. I just look at our situation and think why aren't we together? They don't have any kids together and we do. We are both older and have a better understanding of what we want. The part that's really driving me crazy is I don't know if she feels the same way I do. I think she does but not 100%. Should I tell her and does it sound like she still has it for me?