:mad: My boyfriend of 4 yrs. And I just moved to the state of Tennessee to start and new life. After living in Florida, we decided to make the move. We both found jobs, moved into a nice home, everything was going just perfect. Ken was planning to fix up the house and I was so excited about spending our first Xmas in the cold weather. Our relationship was very stable, we loved each other, we were always together, having fun, nothing I can say was going wrong. When Ken accepted the manager position at his work place, I noticed things weren't right. He was avoiding me, stopped fixing up, constantly working overtime,and not eating much. One morning out of the blue on Nov. 8th 2005, he broke the news to me, I'm not attracted to you anymore, I want to move into my own place. I was devastated and extremely hurt. So, Ken moved out that day and never came back. He kept in touch with me weekly, along with a lot of lying, but no reason to come home. He found an apartment, I asked him if there is a roommate, he would stutter and say "maybe", then I asked if there was another girl, same reply "maybe". But Ken still would call me, be very nice and civil on the phone. I let him have it, once , told him not to call me ever again and to leave me alone. But, again would call for certain reasons. Now, he still has belongings at the house along with our paperwork. I told him to come and get them. The boxes are still sitting in the basement. How could he just all of a sudden do something like this? He knows I'm all alone up here, and I did nothing to push him away. What happen in his mind to do this to me. I need some desperate answers. I'm hurting very bad. If he wasn't happy with me, why did he say something in Florida! HELP!!