Me and my boyfriend were together for just over a yr and a half, I was reaally happy, but he ovbiously wasn't, he split up wiv me the day before new year, and yea I know that's harsh, he got a new girlfriend after 2 weeks of splittin up wiv me, but they have recently split up about 3 weeks ago. Since then we have been meeting up loads, and some things have heppnd, but then in the morning, he always says sorry I don't want to hurt you but I was drunk. But then does it agen, I no I shouldn't keep going back to him but I can't help it I love him so much, and just keep thinking to myself there must be part of him that still cares for me other wise he wouldn't be doing all this and I know some of you will probably think what are you doing? He sounds horrible why do you want him back? But I want him back becos I love him and I want to be wiv him and I no that if he gave me abother chance we could make it work... all I can think of to get him back is to make him feel guilty but I duno... wot does every 1 else think? Help me

You sure you really want him in your life? If he keeps doing this.

Get that there must be some part of him that cares for me. No there isn't if there was he would be with you wouldn't he. He wouldn't hurt you. He wouldn't say Oh sorry love. But I was drunk yeah take care. I mean come on :)

Don't be a puppy getting smacked and still coming back on you belly looking for love..
Have some self respect and leave this guy :)

Why waist your time on person like this . I doubt anyone on here is going to say oh he sounds great for you. Because if your like this there's something very wrong.


I think you should really forget about him and not let him use you, when there's no one else around to play with.

I hope you get over this :)

Regards

Well he split up wiv me because he said he wernt happy, and that's it, I neva knew what he wasn't happy wiv, until one of my mates asked him and he just said the arguments, no I know he doesn't love me, but the only thing keeping me going is that I know he did once, but the thing is he doesn't believe we could eva be happy agen, but at the moment the only time I eva see him happy is when he is drinking, and why should you have to drink to be happy? It wasn't like that when we were togeva, yea he had his ups and dwns and mood swings but what lad doesn't? Lol, I just wish I could find a way of getting him back for good, I have tried to move on, I even had a different boyfriend for a week, but it literally made me feel sick being wiv sum 1 else, and even though I'm not wiv my ex any more it still made me feel guilty and like I was doing something wrong... but the things he says to me when he is drunk is unbelieveable like he wants me and no 1 else etc... but then when he says sorry I was drunk I duno what 2 do... I love him so much!

Well your saying the same stuff over and over again.

I have said my advice I won't say it again.

It does not seem like you will listen.

Shame really ;) you could have used your love on someone that was worth it

Regards

Kyla
This guy is just using you , he knows you will be there whenever he wants you ,(and that's when he's drunk) Doesn't that tell you something.

Look when you Love someone its very hard to make that initial break , but you need to do that for yourself. Otherwise you will just be stuck on an emotional roller coaster until it finally sinks in and realise it's not going to change.

Read some stories on these forums and you'll realise your not alone , and you'll get some good insight about how other people deal with break-ups.

Good Luck!

You keep falling for that I was drunk excuse, and he will use it over and over. How about show some love, and dignity, for yourself for a change, and stop being his chump!

You need to start loving and respecting yourself. This guy does not care for you. Regardless of what you think you feel for him, it is not being returned. Anytime a guy can only be with you when he's drunk, that should tell you something. Don't allow yourself to be used. Love has nothing to do with it. This is about self respect and common sense.