I got pregnant on the first date, I was shocked that he wasn't using protection! He told me he was sterile and couldn't have children. I asked him how did he know that and if he was ever tested. He said no. He just knew. That was not true. I was right. I want nothing to do with him for many reasons. I would like to raise this baby with sole costidy! Is that possible what are my rights in New Jersey? And what his rights in New Jersey?