I am 24, married and have 2 beautiful children age 5 and 18 months.
I wish to spare gross details but it has to be said, my husband only had to look at me and I caught with my 2 children straight away, 3 weeks after we had sex I was looking at positive pregnancy tests.
But now I want a 3rd, I cant, we have been having unprotected sex for 6 months, I know to some women that is not a long time, but when you catch so easily twice and now cant...
Im with a specialist about irregular bleeding and stomach aches, but everything seems fine. In 6 months Im having an operation to see if I have Endometriosis.
Am I being selfish? I don't feel my family is complete, and I don't want to wait even though Im young, I want my family now. When you conceive so quickly and now are having a hint of trouble Im starting to worry.

I understand how you feel I have been trying for over a year now and I have no babies yet! I wish I could give some helpful advice but I don't know why I'm not conceiving. I came from a family of five and I would like 3 or more children. Keep trying but don't forget that you have 2 amazing children already! Good luck!

I wish you luck and relax is one of the best pieces of advice I can give you. You are in no way selfish. I have 3 children and we would like to go for number 4 after the summer is over. Hay... the more the merrier right!! Lol GOOD LUCK

Whatever you do... don't listen to Harmony8u. Have as many children as you can financially and emotionally afford!

That said, I'm sorry about your trouble getting pregnant. I know that you conceived right away with your two children, but if the third is anything like "normal" you may not conceive for 6-12 months or longer. Hopefully there is nothing wrong, but you did mention some abnormal bleeding which can throw everything off. Keep on trying, but stay relaxed. It may be nothing at all. Good luck and hopefully something will happen for you very soon.

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Originally Posted by Shy1983

I am 24, married and have 2 beautiful children age 5 and 18 months.
I wish to spare gross details but it has to be said, my husband only had to look at me and I caught with my 2 children straight away, 3 weeks after we had sex I was looking at positive pregnancy tests.
But now I want a 3rd, I cant, we have been having unprotected sex for 6 months, I know to some women that is not a long time, but when you catch so easily twice and now cant...
Im with a specialist about irregular bleeding and stomach aches, but everything seems fine. In 6 months Im having an operation to see if I have Endometriosis.
Am I being selfish? I dont feel my family is complete, and I dont want to wait even though Im young, I want my family now. When you concieve so quickly and now are having a hint of trouble Im starting to worry.

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You sound like a real family girl like myself I'm 23 and have three children I love all my kids like crazy my first two were boys and my family just didn't feel compleat until I had my girl now my family feels compleat and I love it so keep yr hopes up I hope eveything goes well for you xxx