My boyfriend went to a strip club!
Hi,
My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years, and we totally trust each other and everything is going good. He went away for a few days with his friends and when he came back he told me he went to a strip club (also he told he was at Hooters and they "unexpected" had a bikini contest") well after asking him for the 10th time if he got a lapdance while he was there he finally told me he had, but that the girl just jumped in his lap before he could ever tell her no thanks. I have never been to a strip club and find it hard to believe that they would just jump on you but i really don't know. Well I asked him how long she was on his lap and why he didnt tell her to get up right away. He said he was basically "lap-raped" and couldn't do anything about it and that he told her to get up as soon as the music went off. I am sooooo pissed right now and really have a problem with this, and since he didn't expect me to get so mad I think he is not telling me the truth about everything, I mean even if she just jumped on his lap he should have told her to get up right away not after the music went off and then tell her he has to use the bathroom. I am really glad that he told me about it, but that should give that should not excuse his behavior. What do u guys think? Is it a coincidence that he "accidentally as he says, because if his friends" ended up at all these places and I shouldn't blame him? Is this really sounding like the truth, am I overreacting, what should I do I can't stop thinking about it?? Thanks!!
Guys, I am not TOTALLY believing the story that is why I am asking opinions. Also I am not blaming his friends and I did not overreact when he told me he went to a strip club and jokingly asked (to make him feel comfortable cause I needed to know) if he got a lap dance