Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck
hell may have frozen over on this but I will agree with him, this is often a really bad issue with many christians, it is a "hollier than thou" not the forgiveness and accepting the person for what they are, as they are.
and what they can become.
Somewhere in your mind, ( and I will assume you want to be a boyfriend with her) that you want to be her first and can not stand thinking of her ever touching or doing anything with anyone else. I will have to say there is nothing we can say, this is purely your problem but if you let it effect you or bring it up in the relatinship, it is only going to get worst and worst bothering you.