0k here it is
I'm (23)she's (32)
Big difference right anyway I'm so in love with this girl bad I just can't find myself to say
Forget her its becoming to be hard as hell but let me tell you the story
She cheated on me with s0me other guy she told me some bull story I still took her back went out there because we do stay apart now when we first met we have been staying together since and we have been together for 2 and a half years and now we live and different states basically my question is she just completely act different towards me now she don't call me and when we do talk she acts like she really doesn't want to so what should I do should I take the hint she's giving me but then when I picture us apart its hard as hell so what to do please help me!! :( :( :(

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Originally Posted by resse

0k here it is
so what should i do should i take the hint shes giving me but then when i picture us apart its hard as hell so what to do please help me!!!!!!!!!:( :( :(

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Yes take the hint, first this relationship has some flaws first, the cheating, now the distance, lack of communication.. I can't tell you how she may feel, however you should ask her if she wants to continue the relationship or not, and if she does is this really what you want? A one-sided relationship where you are investing the emotions and efforts? In order for a relationship to work both partners must be giving... Trust me you may love her and it may be hard to picture your life without her, but the reality is stop thinking about life without her and try to think of being happy without her. Being happy with yourself and knowing a healthy relationship from an unhealthy relationship. Loving someone doesn't mean that you have to be with them.

Love , there are no warranties, no return policies, no guarantees. The only guarantee you get out of love is when it's self love... Loving yourself so much to know what is best for you. That is the only guarantee... So think about your relationship if you need to write down on a piece of paper why you want to stay and why you shouldn't stay... The good and the bad and decide what you want.

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Originally Posted by resse

0k here it is
im (23)she's (32)
big difference right anyways im so in love with this girl bad i just can't find myself to say
forget her its becoming to be hard as hell but let me tell you the story
she cheated on me with s0me other guy she told me some bull story i still took her back went out there because we do stay apart now when we first met we have been staying together since and we have been together for 2 and a half years and now we live n different states basically my question is she just completely act different towards me now she dont call me and when we do talk she acts like she really does'nt want to so what should i do should i take the hint shes giving me but then when i picture us apart its hard as hell so what to do please help me!!!!!!!!!:( :( :(

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resse this is Tacorra if she cheated on u the first time and u think that itz bull maybe she feel really bad for what she has done. I've been in this situation before trust me just give her some time to think and if she is still the same then I guess try to move on and find some one that will treat u better

Wake up fella, this female is way beyond you, and fills in her time quite nicely, while your not there. She doesn't feel the same as you by a long shot. Time to hunt closer to home, and stay out of her state. She has given you a lot more than a hint, so disappear from her life.

She won't talk to you cause she has someone else talking to her or doing whatever, sorry to be blount about it but it doesn't take a rocket scientist to see what's going on...