I am a 26 yr old girl, I have been having sex since I was 14 and there is still something I am trying to understand. Can I have multiple orgasms through intercourse, an still not know how to masturbate? I'm not sure what an orgasm feels like or typically how long it last. Can someone tell me, I almost have no clue.
Thank you.:o

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Originally Posted by angelonhorseback

I am a 26 yr old gurl, I have been having sex since I was 14 and there is still something i am trying to understand. Can I have multiple orgasms through intercourse, an still not know how to masturbate? I'm not sure wat an orgasm feels like or typically how long it last. Can someone tell me, I almost have no clue.
Thank you.:o

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Yes if youlike the feeling and you get a throbbing feeling then it is an orgasm-do you feel satisfied afterwards?

It feels like an eruption, explosion if you will. And it last from about 5 to 15 seconds, but the first one is the longest an the 4 after that vary in time. I don't know how to play with myself an I think I have only squirted 2 times in my life. Once when I was 16 an the other time I was 19. I always feel like I got to pee during sex, even if I go just before hand.

An orgasm is akin to a sneeze in some ways; you can't control it and it feels like a big build up then an amazing release of energy. If you had an orgasm you would know it.

Direct and prolonged stimulation of the clitoris is required for some women to orgasm. Many have their first orgasm via a vibrator or something because they cannot maintain the necessary tempo, or duration with their hands. Once you have one, it is easier to have more because you will know what is necessary for you.

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Originally Posted by angelonhorseback

it feels like an eruption, explosion if u will. and it last from about 5 to 15 seconds, but the first one is the longest an the 4 after that vary in time. I dont know how to play with myself an i think i have only squirted 2 times in my life. Once when I was 16 an the other time i was 19. I always feel like i gotta pee during sex, even if i go just before hand.

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Okay what you describe is an orgasm (actually four of them!) whether you "squirt" is irrelevant. Needing /or having the feeling of needing to pee during sex is common, however you may need to adjust depth of penetration-it may be a little deep for you in some positions, but because you seem to climax during sex-there may be overstimulation of the g-spot-for you, therefore it may make you want to pee..

You sound like you have a great sexual response that many women would be jealous of.


Cheers

The eruption/explosion talk sure sounds like an orgasm.

Can you get off orally on only with intercourse? If you can get off without penetration, it means you can climax through external cl!toral stim, as many women can. If you need penetration, you might need g-spot (which is really cl!toral from the "backside") and inner labia (also the "legs" of the cl!toral complex) to get off. Which means if you need penetration with a partner, you might not be getting the right stim with masturbation. Meaning a penetrating device might be needed.

If he can get you off orally without penetration, you might want an external vibe. My partner has one. Cute. Pink. Shell take it on the road when she travels. Better then her taking some guy to her room.

If you can't get off orally... hard to know. Is straight cl!toral not enough? Is he just not doing it right?

Short answer is probably to buy a vibe and see how it goes.

If the explosion/eruption that occurs with intercourse really washes over you and feels great, feel lucky. Some women are in the opposite place... can get off manually, but not with a partner.

A female orgasm(specially multiple orgasms) is a singular experience; when orgasm occurs, there is no mistaking it for something else. I don't think you have had an orgasm or multiple orgasms.

I'm not good at describing or writing, but I would say that an orgasm *feels* like an epileptic seizure LOOKS.

Orgasms can happen during intercourse, during sex play, spontaneously out of transcendent consciousness, all different ways. :D

Well I am guessing it is an orgasm, I was told by a few of my girl friends, that not every girl does the why chicken when they come. The whole shakey legs and convultions don't always occure.