Should I stay or should I go?
Hi there all,
Me (21yo) and my girlfriend (20yo) have been together for a little over two years now and have, like all couples, had our ups and downs. However at the moment we are in a serious down section and have pretty much agreed to split up. I just wanted to ask everyone's advice on it really, so here goes! We live together as well.
She says that she is not happy with the fact that I am not flexible enough with her; that I don't give her enough space and that I always think that I am the one in the right and am not willing to accept her opinions on some things (like what I spend my own money on). To a certain degree I think that she is probably right about these things and I don't know why I do it sometimes but there we go!
The problem that I am having with myself is that in some ways I think that I want to be without her for the various things that annoy me about the way she is with me. But then again on the other hand I would really miss her and all the things that we do together. My days at the moment are spent debating with myself whether I should put the effort in to try and keep her or just accept that it could be for the best and let her go.
Any advice would be appreciated.
David
(Sorry if it's a little confusing... it's early! )