Why do men ask if not ready to plan?
My fiancé asked me to marry him on my birthday, and the morning of my brothers wedding day.feb 23.he is married but has been legalley separated for a year.we are on a tite budget.we have a son 11months old .I have two questions.first if his wife does not live in same stat and he has no way of getting ahold of her,how can he get a cheap devorce.and they have no kids or anything togeather.they were young and both know it was a mistake? main problem ! We have not picked a date we talked a little about how we want our wedding to be.the thing that botherd when I asked him where we were going to have the ceramonie his response was we have plenty of tim to figure that out?wrong answer.. then when he noticed I got upset he tells me to try some places.I told him I'm not going to rush him in to anything.and tha I wasent going to bring it up again and it up to him when he ready to talk about it.I don't know what this means,but I don't want to wait for ever.I feel he should have waited to ask me for when he ready to make plans.pleas help what does it sound like to you.am I just to sensitive.and what if I don't bring it up,will he ever?