Hi I am trying to satisfy my girlfriend but I just can't keep it up long enough to do it I last for about 9 minutes and I can't take pills to help me keep it up. So can someone tell me what substitutions I could use to help make it bigger and last longer?

Keep your mind on something totally nonsexual during intercourse, or try masturbating earlier in the day, it can help your stamina.

Wait... Do you mean that you're coming too soon? OR do you mean that you actually cannot keep it erect for long?

*Nine minutes* is plenty of time for you to keep it up after you enter your girlfriend, plenty!

If she can't orgasm in nine minutes, she needs to work on her sexuality/orgasmic response.

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Originally Posted by KalFour

Wait... Do you mean that you're coming too soon? OR do you mean that you actually cannot keep it erect for long?

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I am coming too soon

In that case, go with what Charlotte said.

Good luck!

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Originally Posted by slimbo

hi i am trying to satisfy my girlfriend but i just can't keep it up long enough to do it i last for about 9 minutes and i can't take pills to help me keep it up. so can someone tell me what substitutions i could use to help make it bigger and last longer?

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Foreplay... use your hand to touch her.. all over... then find her g-spot with your hand... stimulate her and then you will not feel like intercourse is her only release. When I first experienced an orgasym by my husband just touching me... it was unbelievable... I realized that there are all kinds of ways to make your partner climax... After she experiences this type of intimacy... she'll love ending it with you taking care of you.