I have no idea what my problem is, but I was going out with a guy, even though I still had a crush on two other guys, then I broke up with the guy and started dating another guy, who I was kind of into, at which point I developed a crush on at least two more guys. Right now I'm still in a relationship with the second boyfriend in this story, but I still like about 5 other guys. I never act on these crushes because I don't want to screw up anything, but it's getting to the point where I can'teven tell if my feelings are valid any more. It's like I'm always on the look out for new prospects even though I have complicated my life enough already. Can anybody offer me any advice or insight on this?

PS I know I'm not being fair to the guy I'm dating but that's a different issue that I'm already dealing with so please, no advice on that subject, thank you

Anyone?

I'm guessing you're a teenager and you're hormones are running rampant... You'll grow out of it... hopefully...

P.S. I feel bad for the guy you're dating.

Oh, sweetie. Make up your mind who you want to be with. You can't treat people like that. Remember, what goes around comes around. If you continue to treat people like that don't be surprised when you run out of boyfriends.

Until you get to know and love yourself, you will always be distracted by something you think looks good, or interesting. You can enjoy others freely, if you stay free, until you have a better idea of what you really want. Keep it casual. Your not ready for just one.

Thank you Talaniman, you were helpful and you didn't offer advice on the part about my boyfriend, which I appreciated considering I broke up with him the day after I wrote this because I already knew that I wasn't being fair to him. As for Bluerose, thanks for completely misunderstanding my note.

I have read you post again very carefully and I don't see where I misunderstood it. You have crushes on about five or six guys. You have got close to one or two but can't make up your mind who to be with. I take it you are very young and just becoming sexually aware and becoming a little overwhelmed by it all. You simply need to take a step back and decide what you want.