I don't know if I should move in with my mom because I'm really doing good and I know my dad wants me to live with him but he checks my mail email and everything I have no privacy to and I want to live with my mom because she doesn't yell she talks to me and my dad usto but now he doesn't and I know that I won't get in any more trouble but my dad said if I do then he won't talk to me and he'll probably get mad and my moms boyfriend is really nice but I still want to see my dad and I don't know he he will if I move in with my mom

Roll a Die. 1,2 or 3 means move in with mom. 4,5, or 6 means move in with dad.

Both of your parents love you and only want what's best for you. Do you feel that your environment with your mom is more stable or with your dad? Depending on your age and if you are in school stability is something you need to have. If everything is caotic in one household then it would be hard to concentrate on your studies.

I had to make this decision when I was 16 and had decided to move with my dad because it would a better fit for me because I was in school.

I think you should sit down with your dad and talk with him about all the things you've just said tell him how you feel and don't say its because he shouts he only shouts because he cares ,god if you heard me shout at mine you would run amile but I only shout because I care and it's the only way I seem to get through to him,ask your dad if he will try and talk with you about things instead of shouting

You can only try and if you don't you'll never no will you?
And if your doing well at school when your at your dads then stay their your schooling is very important

Well you didn't have to give me a redie because you didn't agree with what I had to say. Thanks!

Well that's what the comment box is for if you agree or disagree

Running away from aproblem never solves it

No, the comment box is used for agreeing/disagreeing on something only if it is a fact which in this case is your opinion.

I did not suggest to the OP that he should run away from his problems. I only insisted that he look out for what is best for him.

Curlybenswife,

Thank you so much! Nor did I think I deserved a reddie either. We agree to disagree I guess :)

Reading your other ?'s I think you should move in with your mom if you can because you need to have peace in your spirit and that is hard when you have someone yelling and putting you down. If there is a court order saying you have to live with your dad you really don't have a choice.
If you do move in with your mom you should talk with her first and have her make up a plan for you to stay with your dad like on holidays, some weekends, maybe a month in the summer and give it to your dad when you tell him your intentions to move to your moms so he doesn't feel as though you are just cutting him out.

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Originally Posted by COOKIE MONSTER

well thats what the comment box is for if you agree or disagree

running away from aproblem never solves it

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No, this is not the function of the disagree buttom, please take time and read though the FAQ.

Please refrain from merely giving a "reddie" if you merely disagree.