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  • Mar 10, 2008, 05:01 AM
    jianna
    My biological Father
    I need to find my biological father. I haven't seen him since I was about 2years old. I have very little information to go on, and I have tried sited like genesreunited etc and Im getting nowhere, I need help to find him and I need it fast, can anyone give me advice on how to do it.
  • Mar 10, 2008, 05:38 AM
    tickle
    I don't know where you can start unless you now where he lived last. Then you could probably put an ad in the paper in that city saying 'anyone knowing the whereabouts, etc'. Have you asked relatives if they know anything; can't your mom help ?
  • Apr 20, 2008, 08:22 PM
    motherofthree
    I was in the same situation as you were I have not seen my biological father since I was two and now I am thirty five with three boys. I was thinking about him very often more than ever now since my mom passed away and my stepfather as well when I was eighteen . I knew he wanted to be a part of my life, but my stepfather did not want him to be which makes me very angry to this day because recently I have found my biological father by using a website called findthemnow.org,although I was skeptical at first but she was very reassuring and professional,well to make a long story short he has been found and I have his address and phone number ,but when the investigator called him up he replied with saying that was a long time ago and was not interested in a reunion, so needless to say it was bitter sweet, but I do not plan on stopping there because I knew this had to be a shock for him and I plan on writing him al letter and hoping he responds either way.
  • Apr 21, 2008, 04:59 PM
    hybrid
    Hey there. First of all I would like to wish you all the luck in the world as you search for your biological father. I too am searching for mine. Unfortunetly I have no support from my mom and I feel like I'm still missing someone even though I'm almost 23. I have no name and no one even knew my mom was dating anyone to say that maybe they would have an idea who he is. Just want you to know you are not alone.
  • Apr 21, 2008, 05:20 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    Well if you will post as much info as you know about him, some family should have info on him, name, name of his brothers or sisters, what part of the country ( what county even) are they from
    What is his @ age.

    We have some pretty good search people on here
  • Apr 28, 2008, 03:06 PM
    lovely24
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jianna
    I need to find my biological father. I havent seen him since I was about 2years old. I have very little information to go on, and I have tried sited like genesreunited etc and Im getting nowhere, I need help to find him and i need it fast, can anyone give me advice on how to do it.

    No but hun leave the past in the past he left for a reason maybe he didn't want to be foun or he would be I'm not saying no use of trying I'm saying theirs a reason why he left and maybe there is more to it than you know...
  • May 1, 2008, 07:58 AM
    shellyscott
    I have a suggestion. I was looking for my husband's birthmother and had very little information on her. All I knew was her birthday, where my husband was born, that she lived in Florida previously, and she had been married and divorced in one year. I found her living in India.
    I had a lot of help with a website called adoption.about.com
    Here is the direct link to finding an angel. Most of the time it's free.
    Adoption Search Angels - Search Angel Listings - Adoption Search
  • Jul 23, 2009, 09:58 AM
    squidge86
    If any of you are called carl and your mother is elizabeth. My father is christopher ronald gurden from oxford but now lives in ross-on-wye.im looking for a carl who is around 31-35.
  • Jul 23, 2009, 09:58 AM
    squidge86
    If any of you are called carl and your mother is elizabeth. My father is christopher ronald gurden from oxford but now lives in ross-on-wye.im looking for a carl who is around 31-35.
  • Jul 31, 2009, 02:40 AM
    abi29

    If you know his name, then tyou can ask around places like the local library, and see if they have a record of him. If so, you can ask some difrent things, so you will be closer to finding him.
  • Jul 31, 2009, 07:16 AM
    Gem_22205

    Going back to try to separate between post I believe I have found information for squidge86. If you could please respond starting your own thread. Sometimes piggybacking on another's post will cause confusion and information to be missed.
  • Apr 4, 2010, 05:22 AM
    squidge86

    Hi I'm squidge86.im very new to this and its all very confusing.my dad is christopher ronald gurden and I'm looking for my brother carl.all I know is that he's around 35 and his mother is called elizabeth(lizzie).my dad was born in oxford but I believe he was in ross on wye when he met carls mother.he was 17.my email address is [email protected] you could help that would be great.thatnk you.
  • Apr 4, 2010, 01:40 PM
    Gem_22205

    Hello squidge86. Please do not post any personal email addresses. Any reply to your question will be posted here in this forum. Being that I had a response pertaining specifically for you I will try to regather the information once again. To assist you better, could you submit your request under your own thread to eliminate any further confusion?
  • Apr 4, 2010, 01:48 PM
    tickle
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Gem_22205 View Post
    Hello squidge86. Please do not post any personal email addresses. Any reply to your question will be posted here in this forum. Being that I had a response pertaining specifically for you I will try to regather the information once again. To assist you better, could you submit your request under your own thread to eliminate any further confusion?

    It doesn't matter, you can't post the personal information you have found on this public site. You can always PM the other member with personal information here.

    Tick
  • Apr 5, 2010, 01:52 AM
    squidge86

    I'm sorry, I don't know how to make my own thread, I'm really new at this

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