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  • Jan 30, 2006, 11:16 PM
    welderchick
    Pain after sex
    I was wondering why I get horrible pain after being fingered by my b/f ?
  • Jan 31, 2006, 12:19 AM
    PrettyLady
    Welderchick, if sex play is uncomfortable or hurts, you should tell your boyfriend. Keep in mind that fingernails can scratch and hurt. Also, your probably not sexually aroused enough and the vaginal entrance is not lubricated enough for penetration. Try using a lubricant, or tell him not to be so rough. Remember to make him wash his hands and fingers before he fingers you because you can get a urinary tract infection and we want you to be safe.
  • Jan 31, 2006, 06:09 AM
    fredg
    Hi,
    I fully agree with Pretty's suggestions.
    I can't think of any reasons this would hurt, except for not being wet, fingernails, or he is being absolutely too rough.
    I have a feeling your boyfriend won't be your boyfriend very long, if you don't talk with him about this. Why? Because you can't keep going like this. I do wish you and he the best of luck.
  • Jan 31, 2006, 05:28 PM
    PrettyLady
    Fred, I know. I had to make sure that I covered everything because you can tell that she is very young and she was in need of help. Let's hope that she follows the preparations before having this kind of sex play.

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