21, 3 year boyfriend . Never had an orgasm
Me and my boyfriend have been togther for about 3 and a half years. We have sex.. not a lot but we have sex. I try so hard to have an orgasm and it doesn't come. He is great.. oral and intercourse. Once I hit the peak point I pull away or start crying. I can't handle the feeling. It is too intense. I really want to have one, for me and him. I know he must feel like he isn't good enough.. but its not the case. It is totally me. I don't know what to do to relax.. I even sing the abc in my head to stop thinking about it so it will come.. I don't know if this is normal or what. What can I do to make myself have an orgasm?