Too much to expect a thank you note?
Twice in one year I have mailed a money order for $50.00 together with a wedding card and a personal note. One wedding was a year ago; the other was back in May. At the first wedding, the groom came up to me and said thanks for the money; the second wedding I didn't attend.
Hmmm, maybe in these hectic days I'm expecting too much. Or perhaps the gift wasn't of sufficient value to warrant a thank you note.
Alas, I'm vindictive enough not to send an anniversary gift. ;)