:confused: My boyfriend of 2 years and the father of my two children, one 12months old & the 2nd is on the way, he's very lazy, I sometimes feel as if I'm all alone so to speak, he never helps me clean, take care of the baby, change diapers, all he ever seems to be doing is laying in my bed all day. I'm not saying he's a bad person or anything, he just has his priorities messed up. I'm desperate for answers and advice, what am I suppose to do with a man who won't help me??

Tell him to help, or leave. I understand you probably don't want to leave the father of your children, but there is no reason why he cannot help you. You are the mother to your children, not the mother to your children and your boyfriend.

Especially since you are pregnant, he should be helping you. Maybe if you tell him help or leave, it will give him a wake up call and he might start helping.

I would tell him to help you or you will help him get his stuff together so he can leave...

You've got two choices ; take him or leave him. You're not going to change him. He's only going to change if he wants to change. What do you do for financial support if all he does is "lay in your bed all day?"

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what am I suppose to do with a man who won't help me??

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Kick him to the curb, and make better choices, than to get pregnant twice by a lazy bum.