My sons father was only 14 when I got pregnant and I was 17. No, I didn't know he has 14. But now after 8 years the state of il caught up with him for child support and now he says he can't turn his back on our son. My son is 7 and he has never seen him or tried to contact him can he just come into his life and is there any way that I can have his parental rights terminated?