I am dating a wonderful guy and he is the only person I like at the moment. I don't plan on us breaking up anytime soon either. But my friend(casey) who is a guy asked me would I rather go out with him or my boyfriend. Of course I said my boyfriend. But the next day he asked out my best friend. But casey told me when me and my boyfriend break up he will probably dump my best friends and ask me out. I already told my best friends that he told me that. She said she would be fine with it because she wouldn't want a guy to ruin our friendship. What should I do?

Here is a life lesson.

Casey is not your friend he is interested in your romantically so he is just sticking around until he has the opportunity to get with you From what you tell me Casey is not a good person he basically asked you out you and you shot him down by telling him that you rather be with your current boyfriend. Casey then goes to your Best Friend Forever, and asks her out. Your best friends is going out with him.

Unless, the rules have changed Casey should have been off limits to you best friends. Your best friends needs to break-up with this guy. Casey is not really interested in her and by his own admittance will dump her as soon as you become available.

After the break-up make it crystal clear to Casey that you don't plan on ever dating him. In fact don't speak to him. That goes for you and your best friends.


Maybe I'm just getting older did the rules change?

All I can see is casey using your boyfriend to get to you, so I would loose this friend and your boyfriend needs to loose him as well...