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  • Mar 6, 2008, 03:47 PM
    Laydee Artois
    Is something wrong?
    Myself and my fiancé have been having sexual intercourse practically everyday for the past 3month, and he has "came" inside me every time. Without using any sort of contaception. We are not trying for a baby, but surely I would be pregnant by now? Is something wrong? Please help!
  • Mar 6, 2008, 03:51 PM
    J_9
    Could be because you are doing it every day. Daily intercourse causes a lower sperm count. He needs at least 24 hours, if not 36 or 48 hours for his sperm count to reach optimum levels.

    Also, it takes the average healthy couple anywhere from 6 months to a year of actively trying before conceiving.
  • Mar 6, 2008, 05:14 PM
    Carebear86
    It took me only a month, I couldn't believe it. BUT don't worry you will get pregnant soon. I just agree with J_9. Don't do it every night. Best of luck! :)
  • Mar 7, 2008, 04:02 PM
    Laydee Artois
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Carebear86
    It took me only a month, I couldn't believe it. BUT don't worry you will get pregnant soon. I just agree with J_9. Don't do it every night. best of luck! :)

    Well the thing is... we like... didnt do it for like a month or something... but I don't understand if when we do it, he comes inside me every time, how come I don't get pregnant? Like I said.. we aren't trying for a baby but it would be nice to have one. Like we both want one etc just not trying at the minute. Is there a certain time/way we can conceive? Reply asap please xxx
  • Mar 7, 2008, 04:04 PM
    J_9
    Do you know your ovulation schedule? You can't conceive unless you are ovulating.
  • Mar 7, 2008, 04:08 PM
    Laydee Artois
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J_9
    Do you know your ovulation schedule? You can't conceive unless you are ovulating.

    What do you mean?. explain please? Lol.

    My periods by the way... they are regular... but for the past few month I am late but then I have a period but only for 2 days?? I get all the signs of pregnancy... I took a test a few weeks ago and it came out negative... what now?

    Reply asap xx xx
  • Mar 7, 2008, 04:12 PM
    J_9
    Do you understand ovulation? Once a month you release one egg and for 24 - 36 hours that egg can get fertilized.

    You can't get pregnant if you are not ovulating or right around ovulation time.
  • Mar 7, 2008, 04:17 PM
    Laydee Artois
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J_9
    Do you understand ovulation? Once a month you release one egg and for 24 - 36 hours that egg can get fertilized.

    You can't get pregnant if you are not ovulating or right around ovulation time.



    Yes I kind of understand what it is and stuff lol. Yea I am I fink.. but still.. how do I know?
  • Mar 7, 2008, 04:22 PM
    J_9
    How do you know what dear?
  • Mar 7, 2008, 04:26 PM
    Laydee Artois
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J_9
    How do you know what dear?

    I don't know. I'm confused. Just answer my qustion... wil I get pregnant/ SOON?
  • Mar 7, 2008, 04:29 PM
    J_9
    I can't answer that question. Not to be rude, but I am not a mind reader. I do not know your complete medical history and cannot give you a physical exam.

    You need to see your doctor about this. When was your last yearly womanly exam?
  • Mar 7, 2008, 04:29 PM
    COOKIE MONSTER
    You can buy an ovulation kit it shows you when you are ovulating and tells you about how to do it and when n all that you can get them from the chemist
  • Mar 8, 2008, 05:21 AM
    honestlysweet86
    Hey

    Me and my fiancé had sex almost every day unprotected for 10 months before I got pregnant. I miscarried unfortunatrly but it still took 10 months to even get pregnant. They say it could take up to a year for healthy couples to get pregnant so just relax. If you really want to get pregnant chart your ovulation and get predictors and buy a basal body temperature thermometer that's what I am going to do once my body is ready for a baby again after my last miscarriage. Goodluck
  • Mar 9, 2008, 01:00 PM
    Laydee Artois
    Oh right. Well, thanks to you all. Ill let yous know lol xx

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