This will make a lot of you laugh, me and this girl met in 6th grade , immediately I had a crush on her, I never really talked to her then next year in 7th grade we were in the same homeroom, she was going out with one of my best friends and I asked her out, I don't really know what I was thinking, but she said, I can't do that to him but now that I know you like me I want to be with you even more, this was like 2 months after I first talked to her, but after a week or so of talking to her we became best friends, told each other everything and loved spending time together. She sat with me during lunch, talked to me at recess and hung out with me instead of her boyfriend. Things went back and forth and she didn't like me then she did and stuff. That summer we finally went out, we said we loved each other and I believed it, but after school started again, she said she didn't love me like she thought, but then after a while she said it was a mistake she was scared that we would lose each other, but now it is March we have liked each other over a year now and everyone knows that we love each other, we make out, say I love you to each other in front of people, don't care about other people when we are with each other and talk about the future, and how much we know we love each other and basically, fuc* anyone who doesn't believe us.it started when we were 12 and 11 now we're 14 and 13.2 years. I think we do love each other.

Do we??

If you think you do, then you do... love as you understand it... everyone has their own concept of it... as you continue to grow older, your ideas of love may change as well as your ideas about all other areas of your life. You might both change in the same ways and together... so at any rate, as long as you feel like you do love each other, then believe your feelings. If you both have the same feelings and expectations as to what that means between the two of you, then enjoy it.

Nothing more then puppy love, I'm sorry. . But.. . You will soon realize that there will be many other 'loves' in your life.

The way I see it is that maybe, your idea of love is still formulating. Or maybe its real. Personally I think that it depends on who you are and what you believe. Ive only thought I was in love twice my whole life so far. And one was just a fluke. It is all in who you are and what you were taught to believe. I say go for it and if it works out then great, if it doesn't then I'm sorry.

Okay, I have a few things to say about your question.

Yes, if you believe that you are in love then you're in love, no one can tell you what you are feeling and whether it's real or not, but you.

Having said that, please don't rush in to a physical relationship (sex) until you are much older, being in love means having the sense to wait, caring enough about that person that you don't do something that neither of you are ready for (I know you didn't ask but I feel the need to point this out).

I will tell you this, my parents met when they were 5 and 8 years old, albeit they couldn't stand each other at the time and only started feeling something for each other when they were 18 and 21. They had a wonderful marriage that lasted until the day they died.

Also know this, you will probably fall in love many times in your life, it doesn't mean that what you're feeling now wasn't real, it just means you grew apart, or grew up.

Take care and be safe.

I basically agree with the others
As long as she is done with the ON/OFF games your relationship should be just as good as anybody else your age, even better.
Often a first love can and does work sometimes but only time will tell.
I know people that have been married many years to their first love.

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Originally Posted by loveaddict531

This will make a lot of you laugh, me and this girl met in 6th grade , immediately i had a crush on her, i never really talked to her then next year in 7th grade we were in the same homeroom, she was going out with one of my best friends and I asked her out, I don't really know what I was thinking, but she said, I can't do that to him but now that I know you like me I want to be with you even more, this was like 2 months after i first talked to her, but after a week or so of talking to her we became best friends, told eachother everything and loved spending time together. She sat with me during lunch, talked to me at recess and hung out with me instead of her bf. Things went back and forth and she didnt like me then she did and stuff. That summer we finally went out, we said we loved eachother and i believed it, but after school started again, she said she didnt love me like she thought, but then after a while she said it was a mistake she was scared that we would lose eachother, but now it is March we have liked eachother over a year now and everyone knows that we love eachother, we make out, say i love you to eachother in front of ppl, dont care about other ppl when we are with eachother and talk about the future, and how much we know we love eachother and basically, fuc* anyone who doesnt believe us.it started when we were 12 and 11 now we're 14 and 13.2 years. i think we do love eachother.

do we???

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Listen.. if you love her.. u wouldn't even ask this.. because by you asking this.. ur doubting the love... love is just an idea that makes you feel special and great inside.. nd if you feel that way when you wit her.. then you are.. but neva doubt anything... dont even ask.. lol... its OK if your 13-14.. love is love and what you feel is what you feel.. no matter your age... now question can be.. is this puppy love.. or am I really IN love with her... lol... love is just simply confusing .nd if you don't know.. how can we?

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Originally Posted by prdrsexiprinces

listen.. if you love her..u wouldnt even ask this ..because by u asking this..ur doubting the love... love is just an idea that makes u feel special and great inside..nd if u feel that way wen u wit her.. then u r..but neva doubt anything...dont even ask ..lol..... its ok if ur 13-14 .. love is love and wat u feel is wat u feel.. no matter ur age... now question can be.. is this puppy love..or am i really IN love with her......lol....love is just simply confusing .nd if u dont know.. how can we??

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