okay I met this guy a year and 3 months ago when him and his x girlfriend were brokeup. At first we were just real good friends and then it got a little bit more and more as the months went by. I met him last year in jjanuary, we hung out all the time and had so much fun. Well in about September he ask me if I would just give him a chance to be together. I said no because I don't trust men and I didn't want to get hurt like I have in the past. Well he ask for about another month if I would be with him and the answers was still no but it was still like we were best friends. He always told me how much he care about me. Well one night his X shows up and me and him were together. He tells her that he doesn't want to be with her right in my face, well she said you owe me a explanation because I'm pregnant.:eek:!! Well that was in November. I kept on talking to him cause you know things happen. Well then he drops the L bomb in December and we just keep on getting closer as time goes by even though I don't want to be with him but I really care about him a lot!! I know I should not talk to him because he has a baby on the way!! But I can't help it we are best friends/lovers and I'm so used to him! What do I DO? Help:confused:

is he back with his pregnant x??

Well sounds like he knows what he wants! Wish I met him lol. He really sounds sweet. He won't give up. I won't say you should stop talking to him because she is pregnant. But you got to think about if you are with him. How would you handle when she brought the baby around to visit? Do you want to be a step parent? But really it does sound like you got a good thing going! Cause your man should be your best friend. It makes life happier and better. Being with someone who is not your friend just plain sucks. And why don't you trust men? Not all men are crappy! Just like woman and men you got some good and some bad.

As a guy, I say drop him. Why hang on to someone you can't trust?

Well she doesn't trust men in gerneral who's to say anything guy is really into her. And he sounds pretty sweet, he really wants to be with this girl.

Well like I said I don't trust him... but as far as he says NO there not back together and I ask him all the time and he like swears. I mean I don't see why he has any reason to lie its not like me and him are together or anything... so I dunno:confused:

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Originally Posted by topladyj

Well sounds like he knows what he wants! Wish I met him lol. He really sounds sweet. He won't give up. I won't say you should stop talking to him because she is pregnant. But you gotta think about if you are with him. How would you handle when she brought the baby around to visit? Do you wanna be a step parent? But really it does sound like you got a good thing going! Cause your man should be your best friend. It makes life happier and better. Being with someone who is not your friend just plain sucks. And why don't you trust men? Not all men are crappy! Just like woman and men you got some good and some bad.

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Yea he really is a sweet person... just don't look for someone and the right one will come along eventually enough though I don't think I have found it yet