Help!! Am in a relationship (I guess you would call it that, not sure though) Only pours it on when he's horny though. Love the attention but the "being treated like an inflatable doll that's just thrown in the corner when he's done" is getting really old. He's very, very charming and desirable and I really, really love his "sex style". Problem is WHAT CAN I DO TO GET HIM TO LOOK AT ME FOR OTHER THAN JUST SEX? Yes, I love to have sex with him. He loves to have sex with me too but gets weird after the fact. Think he's kind of a player and I can run the gamut with him if need be, just want to know what I could possibly do to make him look at me for other than just sex. Thanks in advance. Really trying to understand men. I just know there are some answers out there!