So 4 years ago my parents got a divorce, I was 13. I kind of expected it so it didn't hit me as hard as I thought. My mom started dating this guy who was 23 and she was 37. I was a bit bothered by this but at the time she let me do practically whatever I wanted, and I was a rebellious teen I guess you could call it at that time. After awhile she started to date this loser 24 year old and is still with him. My dad and brother fought him, he tried to fight my boyfriend, almost killed my mother a few times - he's really dangerous and my mom kicked him out for me. This past November she had him at the house and told me I was not to come home because he was there. This really upset me and actually the landlord had a restraining order against him - so I called him. I know it was really messed up to do but I was mad, so she found out and threw me out for her boyfriend. Of course my father took me in but now she's denying ever kicking me out for him - he's a total lowlife, he has no front teeth, no job, not even a goodlooking lowlife - I mean, does anyone know what she could possibly be doingthis for? She's also screwing over my brother really bad, I don't understand. What could it be?

Some women feel insecure and like they can not live without a guy in their life.
Unfortunately, the kids are the ones that have to suffer because they choice 'the need'
To have a boyfriend over their own kids.

Hun you've herd the saying love is blind

Its hard to get out of an abusive relationship,its OK people saying just leave or chuck him out,but its not that easy,I've bin there is hard to leave or chuck them out when you think you love them.
You think what will I do with out him or what will he do with out me,they string you along with words and get amental hold over you saying 'i can't live with out you' n 'i love you,your myeverythin' n all that rubbish and sum women can't get away from it.I did thank god,but I no its hard to get away from them,they always talk you round,always talk their way back in the door,I had to move house to get away from him,so he didn't no were I was and I new he wouldn't nock at the door.
It took me 6months to get away from him,he wouldn't let me see myfamily,or go out he would go out and lock the door,so I couldn't go anywere,he'd mentally abuse me saying 'no 1 would want me only him','no1 would love me the way he does' ' no one would treat me as good as he did' and 'i can't live without you' he hit me several times I had ablack eye and we went food shoppin and my friend seen me he wouldn't let me talk to her,myfriend died and we went to the funeral I cryed because he was mybest friend when we got home he beat me black and blue for crying then said sorry but it was myfault for making him mad.
And I thort at the time being 15 and stupid that I loved him


Your mother is blinded by love thinking the sun shines out his ,I hope she see's him for what you say he is and that you get your mother back just be patient and try to talk with her,let me no how things go if you need to chat private message me and ill get back to you asap