Why do guys like to play with Ur head? My boyfriend left and wanted me to call him every night, so I did when I told him what I was doing like having a few beers with my friends he would get pissed off at me.. well come to find out he went back home to see his baby and got back with his ex. He promised he would call me if that happened and still hasn't. He Promised me the world and I still haven't seen any action.. how do I win this man back over? When I talk to him he tells me that I'm everything he wants and I couldn't be any better. For some reason I feel like he was the one for me. My last relationship was a love hate kind of thing.. this relationship there was no drama.. his ex was a B and he went back to her do guys like all the drama or do they want a girl that don't care what they do, likes to hang out with his friends, and treats them good? I just don't understand you men!!

... and I have never understood all men being lumped into the same bunch...

Your post makes it seem like you are having a difficult time figuring out what you want from a guy. You need to figure that out, then you won't have to figure out the guy, you'll know if he is giving you what you want.

Why do you want to win him back over? Re-read your onw post. Him getting pissed because you're having girls night while he's gone is drama. And then him leaving you... clearly not the one for you. Seeing as he left you... duh. And oneguy is right, its not fair to lump all men together. All men aren't the problem. The problem seems to be you have bad taste in guys and keep going for the losers.

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Originally Posted by justcurious55

why do you want to win him back over? re-read your onw post. him getting pissed because you're having girls nite while he's gone is drama. and then him leaving you...clearly not the one for you. seeing as he left you...duh. and oneguy is right, its not fair to lump all men together. all men aren't the problem. the problem seems to be you have bad taste in guys and keep going for the losers.

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He left for a job not because he wanted to!!

Well what I think is that he is losing interest, that's a bad thing for you and it means he's moving on. I'm not sure if this will work for your situation but maybe if you try getting a little dressed up for him, and getting him to come over for diner or something and when he sees the spruced up new you maybe he'll go for you again. Guys like him don't like to have the same old thing over and over and that's understandable, but it's crutial when he goes for another chick over you. So what I suggest doing is that you should make a bit of a change, not changing you but a change in maybe appearance but don't make it too big. Show off a little and make it worth it if you can. And remember this, not all guys are pigs for women but they sure as hell have a hard time saying no to cleevage. :) Good luck I hope it works for you.

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Originally Posted by gots2lovethis

he Promised me the world and i still havent seen any action..

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So... why is he The One?

Is he signing on to a help site... asking how to win you back? Probably not.

That's not your fault... but you do need a different perspective... as long as you are willing to do the mans bidding, why wouldn't he play you? Its easy game.

Demand more for yourself and from yourself.

You will find many who are willing to say what you want to hear, only to leave you without being loyal or true.

So... why in the world do you try to win him back?? His sorry arse needs to chase you down, needs to beg you back, before you ever consider letting him back in your life.

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Originally Posted by gots2lovethis

well come to find out he went back home to see his baby and got back with his ex. he promised he would call me if that happened and still hasnt. he Promised me the world and i still havent seen any action..

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Could have fooled me with the whole going back to his ex part. Sorry. Sounded like he left you.