:confused: OK, me and my ex have been dating since December 8th 2006. He means so much to me. I don't know why, but I don't express it enough, I'm so laid back and carefree. All I think about is myself. I hurt him all the time because other guys I'm always talking to. I broke up with him three times. He saw me talking to this kid who he hates because we like each other and broke up with me for the first time. I feel so weird, I never get broken up with. In some strange way it makes me want him back. But since he broke up with me, I've been talking to this other kid. He's super hot and stuff, but he's not like my ex. My ex is sooooo fun to be around, whenever I'm with him, its always something's new, we never get bored. But he's super jealous and it pisses me off. He doesn't trust me at all and I guess I gave him plenty of reasons not to. But like I don't know I miss him. No one is like my ex, he makes me laugh and he NEVER talks to any other girls. He barely knows any. Which is a good thing. I don't know how it feels to be jealous over girls so its hard for me to understand what he goes through. Anyway... this new kid, it just doesn't feel right. He's already getting over protective about me and it pisses me off. I called my ex today and admitted to everything I ever lied about and then told him I miss him. He said he doesn't know if he is even going to forgive me, but he said to find a way to get him to forgive me. What are some cute things I can do to get him to forgive me? I need ways quick.:)

Stop appearing needy, that would work well.

You say he is jelouse and that annoys you yet you say you gave him many reasons to feel like that.

Umm doesn't sound like your happy when your with him id leave him alone and stop hurting him and move on with your life girl

You sound young

Grow up :) and enjoy life girly

First you need to decide is your Ex the one you really want to be with? Do you just want him back because he dumped you?
If you really want to be with him then you need to make an effort to communicate and be aware of his feelings , particularly if he isn't comfortable with you talking to other guys. Jealousy is not a good thing in any relationship and you say yourself that you give him reasons to feel that way , not really fair is it.

How about giving him as much attention as you give the other guys, or better yet, stop talking to the other guys so much. You sound like you like fun, but don't take being with him seriously. You may be wrong to him, and he may play all kinds of games for you to prove yourself, not good.

You broke up with your boyfriend three times... but he means "so much" to you..?

If he were here id tell him to leave you.

I am surely not going to tell you how to get him to forgive you...

First, you don't deserve it.

Second, if you can't figure it out yourself, it isn't sincere.

"super hot and stuff"... you sound like you are 12.

Get a clue. Leave the boy alone... he deserves better than this.

Where to start in this trainwreck. The guy has every right to be jealous! You brag about going around talking to other guys and have already broke it off with his 3 times, once for another guy! You really expect him to believe that these guys are all just friends? Then saying "I never get broken up with" get off your high horse and back to reality, EVERYONE gets broke up with. It's a part of life, this guy has every right NOT to take you back. You can't have your cake and eat it too. He has shown you respect by barely talking to other girls and how do you show him respect? Oh yea you don't... I'm sorry if this came off mean and rude, on second thought, no I'm not because someone had to put you in your place

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Originally Posted by jpbabyy

excuse me

why are you so rude? you're probably an old fart who likes men. shut up! you dont even know what we're going through and im not 12 .

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Nice PM. Made me laugh. You are in for some hard lessons.

Clueless.

Love the fact she deleted the OP... so childish.

Dude I get some insane PMs from these people :-) I think she should just smack her self silly hehe

She will put a huge disagree on this post but oh well :)

I bet you tried sleeping with him and that didn't work like it usually does so now you have no idea what to do. I'd recommend be considerate but I don't think you have it in you. He's better off without the drama.